By James M. Hatch, Jr. I grew up in a family that was disorganized, and even worse than that, it came apart. I didn’t read any books but found by experience what it does to children. I saw what it did to my brothers and sisters, and it is only by the grace of God that I remain here today. My brother, a Presbyterian minister who led me to the Lord, couldn’t cut it. It overtook him. Now my burden is not with the marriage but with the children of problem mar